Freedom for the Cold and Calculating

Oh! But he was a tight-fisted hand at the grindstone, Scrooge! a squeezing, wrenching, grasping, scraping, clutching, covetous, old sinner!… External heat and cold had little influence on Scrooge. No warmth could warm, no wintry weather chill him. No wind that blew was bitterer than he, no falling snow was more intent upon its purpose, no pelting rain less open to entreaty. Foul weather didn’t know where to have him. The heaviest rain, and snow, and hail, and sleet, could boast of the advantage over him in only one respect. They often “came down” handsomely, and Scrooge never did.

Stave i, A Christmas Carol by Charles Dickens

I am a cold and calculating person by nature. I suppose that is what compels me so much about the character of Ebeneezer Scrooge. Like him, I can go whole stretches of time in which my human interaction is limited to merely polite exchanges with those I meet. Nary much warmth, care, or concern outside of satisfying my own interests and staying up to date with my to-do lists. Scrooge might have continued in this way until his own death if the world of spirits had not intervened in his relaxed state of decomposition. I too am thankful for supernatural events which remind me often of the world to come and break me from my usual pattern of calculation and cold rationality.

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First Round of Mom-isms

Been spending a lot of time the past week with extended family and sharing memories of our newly departed +Vickie Elizabeth+. The lighter side of our memory of Mama Vickie is all the colorful phrases she used. Being the daughter of unknown ancestors which mom referred to as ridgerunners, she would often use phrases that could only be defined and understood in the context of how they were used. Below is an attempt to bring some formal definition to some of these mom-isms:

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Rest for the Weary and Heavy Laden

November 15/28, 2023
Commencement of Advent & the Nativity Fast

Celebrated my birthday this past weekend. The older I get, the more I long for the kind of birthday presents that involve making memories instead of collecting things. Been going a lot lately to free concerts held at nearby Boston colleges and universities. A quick online search came up blank for colleges holding events as campuses are mostly closed for Thanksgiving Day weekend. So I searched next for concerts at the iconic Boston Symphony Orchestra and came upon a great Boston holiday tradition– Handel’s Messiah performed by the Handel and Haydn Society. I usually prefer the standard abridged version of the Messiah performed by amateur choirs in area churches especially as these performances are often sung as part of worship services and invite congregants to sing along during the chorus parts. This time, though, H+H’s unabridged 3.5 hour long professional performance seemed like the perfect way to spend my birthday money. And it was more and not less divine though it was not sung at a church. It carried its usual power to transform hearts and minds towards the Kingdom of Heaven.

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Honoring Our Domestic Queen

Grandma Vickie attending
the birth of a grandchild

Thanksgiving Day
Thursday, November 23, 2023

What a whirlwind of activity surrounded the death of my mother this past Monday. The official obituary and announcement of her upcoming funeral went live just yesterday. She died peacefully in her sleep sometime early Monday and by the evening she was whisked away to the local funeral home to await her funeral and burial next Thursday as an Orthodox Christian.

Just yesterday my father and I finalized plans with the funeral home, and the director gave us the best gift: allowing us to visit with mom! She was not yet arrayed in the splendor of her maternal office, but a warm and colorful quilt was draped over her. Mom was a classy lady, so I am sure she will look smart for the funeral next Thursday. But for this more intimate visitation, I cannot think of an object more fitting for this domestic queen who lay in state before us.

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A Colorful Tapestry of Humanity

We finally made it happen! It has been a dream since my children were born to visit the Statue of Liberty in New York City. Sure we have been to the city often enough for concerts and business at the Russian Consulate, but this trip was purely for taking in the city itself.

NEW YORK CITY – DEC 01 Times Square ,is a busy tourist intersection of neon art and commerce and is an iconic street of New York City and America, December 01th, 2013 in Manhattan, New York City.
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Two Very Current, Riveting Books

With fall and colder, bracing weather upon us, it is a terrific time to curl up next to a warm fire or radiator and soak in a good story. Spiritual memoir has to be my favorite genre, and there are two out this year that are knocking my socks off.

First, North Korea defector Yeonmi Park has returned with a follow up to her first autobiography In Order to Live; she now writes about her more recent struggle in While Time Remains: A North Korean Defector’s Search for Freedom in America. She writes about the cancel culture and critical race theory that threatens our current liberties. As a survivor of the one of the world’s most repressive regimes, her command of the English language and the eloquence with which she advocates for freedom is compelling. What kind of hell on earth she went through to be free makes one cherish what America has given to the world.

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A Show Affirming Faith and Life

Am watching now the newly released twelfth season of BBC’s Call the Midwife streaming on Netflix (and probably other sources, but this is the one I use). What a terrific show! Where else can you see a popularized, but faithful rendition of Christian monasticism alongside life-affirming midwifery care for expectant mothers?

True, the show often pays lip service to the supposed virtue of abortion, but for the most part, it champions the rights and stories of mothers in all walks of life and in all socioeconomic conditions. I really recommend the BBC in general, but this show specifically! Hope you get a chance to at least sample its wonder.

Saving the World Through Institutions

Orange leaves fall in October on an old country road in the White Mountains of New Hampshire.

Saturday, October 15/28, 2023
Mother of God Who Ripens the Grain

Finally most of us are in the thick of the regular fall schedule. Since we are also in the season of electing or re-electing officials in November, it is a time to think about social change. I listened to this commentary about the lack of conservatives in the political activist space and whether or not this poses a problem. The article came down on a very interesting and subtle point: that the way to change the world is not so much by directly agitating the powers that be for social change, but by building enduring institutions which promote healthy and God honoring values. In this time of great social upheaval, I would like to express my gratitude for at least two enduring institutions that have meant the world to me and my family.

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